Back When We Were Grown-Ups

Many years ago, I met a friend for lunch. That sounds like a simple thing, but she and I lived almost 3 hours apart. While she returned to my hometown regularly, I didn't have the opportunity to travel in her direction very often.

On this particular instance, I found myself attending a training session in a town very near hers. Plans were made, and after I picked her up at her workplace, she directed me to a favorite lunch spot. There, I relied on her recommendation of seafood pasta salad loaded with vegetables for our light, but filling lunch.

That day, I felt like a grown-up for one of the first times. At the time, I held a successful full-time job, had car payments and a mortgage, and along with my husband, was on the fast track to take over financial responsibility for his parents' farm. Certainly, all of those things should have made me feel mature, but I often felt like I was just pretending. Each day was a dress up game of trying to not let anyone in on the fact that I was just a scared kid.

I don't remember what we chatted about as I sat across from my friend and lunched on a fresh and lovely salad. I don't even remember the salad exactly. I just know that I felt mature, content, happy, and confident.

These days, I seem to alternate between being a grown-up, playing one, and wondering what old person has taken over my mind and body. It is a crazy balance of knowing what I should do, wondering how to do it, and not wanting to do it at all. However, I am not too concerned. I think that all of us pretty much feel this way most of the time.

I decided to try to play grown-up this summer and put together my own version of a Grilled Chipotle Shrimp Salad. The one thing that I found distinctive about that long ago salad was the inclusion of lettuce with the pasta. That combination was new to me, and I really liked the crisp contrast. I have swapped the ranch dressing for a more sophisticated chipotle and lime, but kept lots of veggies to keep it all light. It is a perfect salad to reminisce on back when we were grown-ups.

Grilled Chipotle Shrimp Salad

(adapted from Cooking Light)

1 1/2 pounds peeled and deveined large shrimp

1/2 teaspoon kosher salt

1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper

1/2 teaspoon Ancho chile powder

1/2 teaspoon garlic powder

1 tablespoon olive oil

1/4 cup celery, chopped

4 tablespoons red onion, chopped

1/4 cup radishes, sliced paper thin

2 tablespoons fresh cilantro, chopped

2 cups cooked pasta

1 head romaine lettuce, chopped

4 tablespoons mayonnaise

1 tablespoon chopped chipotle chile, canned in adobo sauce

2 tablespoons fresh lime juice

1/2 teaspoon ground cumin

Heat grill or grill pan to medium-high heat.
Combine the salt, pepper, chile powder, and garlic powder in a bowl and toss the shrimp to coat.
Brush the grill with olive oil and cook the shrimp for 2 minutes on each side, or until done.
Set cooked shrimp aside to cool while prepping other ingredients.
Whisk mayonnaise, chipotle, lime juice, and cumin in a bowl and set aside for flavors to meld.
Toss celery, onion, radishes, cilantro, cooked pasta, and lettuce together.
Add shrimp.
Drizzle with dressing and toss to coat. (Serves 4.)

Snobbery, Salad, and Bread Sticks

This past week a restaurant review from Grand Forks, ND became an internet sensation. 85-year-old Marilyn Hagerty submitted an earnest look at a newly opened and very popular hot spot, The Olive Garden.

I have to admit that my first response was to snark. Chain restaurants are not my thing. I honestly try to avoid them. There was a time that I was all about Red Lobster, Olive Garden, and Applebee's. Over time, I have evolved and my tastes have shifted. My snarky, snobby side wanted to claim that I was now better than all that.

Bullsh*t. (sorry, if that seems too bluntly harsh for you) 

Nobody is "better than all that." Some people are snobs, but that doesn't make them better. Ever.

I don't want to be a snob. Ever.

We all come from different backgrounds, have different tastes, experiences, abilities, finances, and even desires. Snobbery about food is, in a word, ridiculous. Of course, we all want healthy options that taste great, but snarking about a restaurant review doesn't do anything positive to accomplish that. There is nothing wrong with an enthusiastic review for The Olive Garden. There is nothing wrong with enjoying a meal out, even at a chain restaurant.

While it won't be my first choice, I will more than likely visit an Olive Garden again some day. I seriously do enjoy their salad and bread sticks. The vinaigrette is perfect with the crisp greens. The bread sticks are soft, warm, and garlicky without making you feel like a you have the breath of the dead after eating them.

Caesar Salad Pizza reminds me a bit of an Olive Garden salad and bread sticks. Brushing the golden, grilled pizza crust with homemade Caesar dressing imparts great flavor. Topping that grilled crust with a light and fresh salad makes a delectable, simple meal.

Use a dough recipe that you love. A soft and chewy crust can be folded over the salad like a taco (or a New York slice). A crispy crust can be held like a cracker with a garden topping. Thicker crusts might need a knife and fork.

Make Caesar Salad Pizza your own based on your own tastes, experiences, abilities, and desires. Enjoy what you love. Forget the critics and the snarks. Don't be a snob. Ever.

Caesar Salad Pizzas

(adapted from Everyday with Rachael Ray)

1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese

1/4 cup olive oil

1 clove garlic

juice of 1/2 of lemon

1 canned anchovy fillet

1 pound refrigerated pizza dough (or your favorite recipe)

4 cups romaine lettuce, shredded

1/2 - 3/4 cup cherry tomatoes, halved

Preheat grill to medium-high (we love charcoal, but gas is good, too).

In a food processor or blender, puree the Parmesan, olive oil, garlic, lemon juice, and anchovy.

Divide the pizza dough into 4 portions.

Rub the dough with a little (additional) olive oil, and press to a uniform thickness.

Place dough on the grill, cover, and cook until browned on one side (about 3-4 minutes).

Turn dough and grill until cooked through (about 3 more minutes).

Brush one side of each pizza with the anchovy dressing.

Toss the lettuce and tomato with remaining dressing.

Top the pizza crusts with the salad. (Serves 4.)

How Do You Get Dressed?

During the winter, salads can sometimes be lack luster. Produce isn't always the best quality, and forget about getting a decent tomato. However, last week, I shared a fresh and delicious Healthy Salad over at South Dakota Magazine that is always crisp and mouthwatering.

How Do You Get Dressed? - Healthy Salad 

At the South Dakota Magazine site, you can also read about South Dakota history, travel, politics, humor, and this heart-warming story of A Birthday Surprise.